1. Talking too much about your past
If you are a transgender person date with an ordinary person, you don’t need to talk too much about your past, including your past transition process and past relationships. Many people are curious about transgender people, so they date transgender people not for hookup, or love relationship, but for answers about their questions on transgender people. It is not necessary to answer their questions, because trans dating finders all know that it is rude to ask transgender people questions about transition. If you are an ordinary person who date a transgender person, you’d better not talk about your past relationships. No matter what are you dating for, this is a topic that should be avoid in the first trans dating.
Forcing intimacy is another bad habit in the first transgender dating. It is not easy to control our emotion, especially when meet a beautiful and charming trans woman. However, the more affection you express, the longer the distance between you and your partner. Never speed up your relationship. The first dating is an opportunity to know about each other, never force you and your partner to do anything in the whole process. No matter who are you date with, what are you dating for, make sure both you and your partner are comfortable in the dating.
3. Don’t care about dating manners
This is a common phenomenon in trans dating. Many people don’t care about their dating manners when dating transgender people. As I’ve mentioned before, trans dating is the same as other dating, transgender people are the same as other people. Dating manner is also very important when dating a trans person. If you are a man to date a trans woman, don’t forget to open the door and pull the chair for woman. It couldn’t be better if you can pay for the bill of the first dating.
4. Stop the conversation
Keep your phone away from your hands, never let your phone stop your conversation. Both you and your partner want to know more about each other on the first dating, so you should be a good listener and give them chances to express their opinions too. Instead of sounding like a big-headed man, you’d better choose something memorable and interesting to talk about. Preparing some interesting topics before dating, since everything is important on the first dating.
The last thing you should avoid on the first dating is discussion. Don’t discuss anything with your partner on the first dating. When talking about a problem, don’t discuss it deeply, just have a small talk and move to the next topic as soon as possible. Dating is a chance to know each other, not to discuss a certain problem. If you are an argumentative person, control yourself in dating, and always remind yourself to stop your desire of argument. Meanwhile, don’t ask for any personal information when you first meet someone. This is a common sense of trans dating.